Message Notes
April 26, 2026
Spring Cleaning
by Scott Ancarrow
1 Samuel 13:1-15, Proverbs 29:25
People Pleasing is the habitual, boundary-less tendency to prioritize others' needs and wishes above one's own to avoid conflict, gain approval, or manage others' emotions. It is an unhealthy, fear-based compliance that leads to resentment, lost personal agency, and missed opportunities for authentic relationships.
From People-Pleasers
to Peace-Makers:
God's presence helps us learn
to lead ourselves
“ If everyone else would just____,
then I could ____...”
Perceived Pressure Real Responsibilities
God's presence helps us to step back so God can step in.
"God, grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, courage to change the things I can, and wisdom to know the difference.”
-Serenity Prayer
God's presence helps us experience real connection
Additional Notes:
The Lie You Don't Know You Believe - Jenny Allen
Tame Your Thoughts - Max Lucado
Bad Thoughts: - Judah Smith and Les Parrott
Codependent No More: How to Stop Controlling Others and Start Caring for Yourself - Melody Beattie
Boundaries -Dr Henry Cloud
A Failure of Nerve: Leadership in the Age of the Quick Fix - Edwin Friedman
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